The problem is a lack of tools to explore this further. Where are the testable predictions?
The question also makes one mistake: the first neuron fires long before birth. Develop meant is a gradual process, so the emergence of consciousness probably is too.
We have language. So do the dolphins, albeit less complex. We are self-aware. So are chimps, dolphins, etc. Perhaps their self-awareness is not as sharply defined and perceived like ours, but it's there.
etc. etc.
This leads into my biggest question regarding consciousness: how does one think without language? We all have an inner self speaking in one language or another, but what if we had no knowledge of any language?
Does language define consciousness?
When you cross the street, do you narrate the situation to yourself ("One car approaching at about 25 miles per hour, currently two hundred feet away, decelerating at...") or do you model them visually?
Now if you were sitting on your couch in dead silence in a pitch black room, what would be going on in your head with no language?
I don't know why people need a clear, binary difference of what makes one "human" to appreciate how beautiful life and the mind is.
Am I in the minority that has no problems with being categorizes as a mammal, just more progressed, not different altogether?