Condescending is feeling sorry for someone who is doing brilliant shit because it's a waste of time, they should be bettering themselves. Like working harder at their job, or having a normal hobby like playing golf or watching football or fishing. You know, normal things like I do. It just seems so sad they what they are doing is a waste of time.

Sorry I didn't add a "I don't mean to be a dick" comment like parent did.

Who says he doesn't? Stop being so judgemental, get your nose out of others business. He may have a more fulfilling life than you even. Go find a hobby you actually enjoy instead of harassing someone whose found theirs.