>I know that a deceased person doesn't care about pretty much anything. Yet, that doesn't preclude me from caring about them, does it?

As I said:

>Funerals, like life, are for the living. The dead don't care -- they're dead.

As such, what you're doing isn't to benefit the dead. Nothing can benefit them.

It's to benefit the living as I said. And there's nothing wrong with that. In fact, it's a lovely thing to do.

But it doesn't benefit the dead in any way and pretending it does seems disingenuous IMHO.

That said, knock yourself out. I have no issue with what you're doing.