I vaguely recalled something like this but I forget the URL/haven't had the chance to check it out further yet! Thank you for sharing this/reminding me to check it out :)

And yeah haha, I know how to be positive but thank you for the reminder. part of the reason I'm under a random name is because I needed a place to vent that is more or less not linked to who I am. I do understand how important appearances can be/how what you say can impact how you're perceived.