It won’t matter, so get drunk with your friends and stack some rocks.
Good to take a balanced approach, but my thoughts too a lot of the time. I am most likely going to go to Patagonia in the next few weeks/months, a dream of mine, and then go home and see grandparents while they are still around.
The links are wonderful, thank you.
I appreciated the part about caregiver burnout:
"They are the shadow soldiers in the battle, where all the attention and support goes to the patient."
My wife asked me what was the plan. I told her nothing is changing, we went to our 14th city, I interviewed for three companies remotely and had two offers in three weeks. I accepted one and flew from there to meet my cousin in NYC for the US Tennis Open and met my wife in Chicago where my new employee shipped my computer.
I flew back home to end our year long trip, had Amazon ship the box to me to send my work computer back to them.
One monkey don’t stop no show.
"Today is your last day." "Meh, whatevs, going home to my family."
https://waitbutwhy.com/2014/05/life-weeks.html
https://waitbutwhy.com/2013/08/putting-time-in-perspective.h...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Top_Five_Regrets_of_the_Dy...
(20+ years in tech, have been laid off twice, fired once, aware none of it really matters, we're all dead eventually, a blip in the cosmic timeline)