But surely there's a middle ground! Sociopathic "tendencies."

But surely it's nuanced. There are plenty of reasons someone might use to explain away their sociopathy and unless we fully explore all of those, we're just not being fair!

"argue against yourself for me"

Like, this isn't wrong, it's just entirely useless coming from outside/someone else

Anyone making an argument should try to attack it from another side, but this is weird