Hey! Ned Nimby here, and I'd like you to know that I *AM* struggling!
You think it doesn't break my heart to know that as I admire the beautiful sunset over the SF bay while sipping the finest of imported Bordeaux my back porch, there are poor homeless people out there?
It breaks my heart!
And by golly, if someone were to build a bunch of cheap housing blocking my view of the bay, I don't think I'd be able to take it!
Have some empathy for me!
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I'm not trying to downplay the complexity of the situation - I'm just saying that you alienate more people than you think with this common format of sarcastic hatred based on the extreme example of the bay area.
I would like to say that, having lived in a city that built very outwards (Houston, Texas), and several denser cities (most notably Paris, France which is very dense), I prefer the quality of life in dense spaces. Being too spread out means that you have massive commutes to be able to get anywhere. Being built up means you can do everything on foot.
ADUs won’t fix the problem, but I guess it’s something.
There is not enough empathy for those who are struggling.