If you always save 10 percent of your earnings, then clearly the multiplier works in your favour.
You can of course go with more risky placements and hope to go higher than a saving account, but then you have to spend attention on the market circus with additional worrisome mental load that you can actually lose everything.
general security? You don't need to (nor should you) hoard 10% of your finances for all 40+ years of your career into a low interest savings account. But you do want to keep a decent amount in case of various downturns. a high CoL city where you pay not much more for "things" can help with that.
Can also help pay for an financial advisor who will happily play with the monopoly money for you. Delegation is a great "experience" to consider when comparing costs of living.
So the bigger number matters because many products are the same price ecerywhere in the world.
Not true. You can just buy a slice of the whole economy.
Then the only situation in which you lose everything is that in which your dollars would be worthless anyway.
Likewise, you can be employed in the big city and work from home living in the small city.
This is the bulk of the "soft landing". As usual on the shoulders of the middle class.