Most of my git repos are things where I'm happy if someone finds something useful, but for several of them I'm very explicit that there are a whole lot of things I will plain refuse to merge not because I think they're not great or useful, but because I don't want my packages to be everything for everyone - I'd rather people took my stuff and built a "competing" solution with different tradeoffs if they have different needs. I'd happily even offer help and suggestions if people want to do that.

I think that a lot of projects would be a lot better if they insisted on not solving everything, and stuck to solving one problem well, and instead of merging every new feature on offer instead help make it easier for others to "compete" with them by e.g. separating out shared functionality or writing about lessons learned...

I'd love to find each and every one of my projects are no longer needed because there's a better option (now, I may be very difficult about what is "better", so that's a tall order), because my list of projects I'd like to pursue is longer than I will stand any chance of getting to in my lifetime, so if some are taken off my plate, awesome...