Your comments are great but your audience is inexperienced. Most of our experience seem to mostly pointless, online arguments and few serious real-life struggles. The latter scares the hell out of us so we run from the conflict and from our feelings. Then we say we "didn't take it personally" to cover up the cowardice.

If that is the case for you, consider yourself lucky. And for once, this comment isn't containing even trace amounts of sarcasm.