IF you drop trash on your neighbor's lawn, that is an externality. If you refuse to mow their lawn, that is not an externality, no matter how much they have to pay someone else.
Efficiency is not an inherent good, and Pigouvian taxes on inefficiency are a huge moral hazard. Is it inefficient for a doctor to play with their children instead of work? Who are the decision makers?
I brought it up specifically in this context (and article about patent litigation) because I think it is potentially a good idea in some domains (like patent law) where the overriding consideration should legitimately be economic efficiency. I think it is entirely reasonable to design our intellectual property rights around the idea that the person or firm that can derive the most economic value from any piece of IP is the most desirable owner of that IP.
I was mostly picking at how you invoked externalities, which is a major pet peeve of mine. I feel that between sloppy economics and utilitarianism, the concept of externalities is invoked anytime anyone doesnt get what they want.