I used to, but mostly changed my mind. I still do it with certain people/discussions, but that's usually for long, high-context, complicated discussions.

In the general case, I try very hard to make no more than one point or ask no more than one question per email. It feels reductive and limiting, but it really does make comms with the median person work much better.

I'm not sure what work that weird, irrelevant gendered speculation is supposed to be doing, so I have no comment.