I love writing software and building things that solve real problems, but it’s astonishingly rare to do this as employment. Yet, you still need income as children don’t eat for free. So for the other 90% of us you have to make a choice:

* Go to work knowing you are probably not productively writing software and just accept that reality for what it is: staring out the window while other people listen to the sound of their own voice out loud all day long. And, you often have to drive through lengthy traffic to relish in this experience.

* Write software outside of work at cost to your marriage, time with kids, personal finances, and everything else with work life balance.

* Go do something else.