My wife shares similar environmental concerns with me, so I haven't had that issue, but I realize others don't have those same values. Of course, we also bought an EV that fits the style of car she's always had (small SUV - we got her an ID.4)

As for the fueling up, there's a huge gulf between those who own a home and those who don't in terms of EV experience - when you have a charger in your garage, you wake up every day with a "full tank".