As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit the workforce

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by anon291 on Thursday November 02, 2023 @09:47AM (#38113442)

My wife stays at home and this is simply not reality. Every day she and the kids are over at friends houses, playdates, hiking, etc. She basically hangs out with her friends while all the kids play.

The great part about this arrangement is that the adults get to plan all kinds of community events for families and kids. Parties, get togethers, camping trips, etc. Our lives are richer because of it and more communal because we're not all sitting in cubicles each day.

It's amazing and way less isolating than my own childhood of daycare. My kids get solid friends who they see almost everyday. We know the families well so they see their friends in more than one context.

Being a stay at home parent doesn't literally mean staying at home.

And to address the last point, my in laws live two blocks away, so my kids get a lot of time with them. And my parents live a short drive so we see them multiple times a week.

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Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by steve1977 on Thursday November 02, 2023 @11:33AM (#38114971)

> The great part about this arrangement is that the adults get to plan all kinds of community events for families and kids. Parties, get togethers, camping trips, etc. Our lives are richer because of it and more communal because we're not all sitting in cubicles each day.

And it's an actually community. Not some "I care for your kids because I get paid for it".

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