>over time, I came to appreciate that getting better at relationships meant diving in, imperfect as I am, and getting better through experience.

And for me, I only got angrier at the artificial experience and more or less gave up, focusing on a career where I feel I do have impact.

I don't know, I guess everyone will process the ordeal differently. I never liked the idea of stuff like Twitter or Facebook to begin with, so I wasn't surprised that a social media website dedicated to the messiest part of courtship would drive me over the edge.