Try being repetitive, using stuff like photo, photograph, raw photo, analog photo, 4k, fujifilm photograph and such all in the same prompt.

> I know the other models might do it better, but I already pay for gpt4 so have dall-e 3 for free

As for unsolicited recommendations, I recommend Stable Diffusion XL though fooocus. Its separate style prompting is the best thing since sliced bread.