Sure, I can see how automation would be useful in that case. If it ever becomes a problem I need to solve, I'll consider fancy gadgets to help me, but jumping into a complex solution to a nonexistent problem doesn't make sense to me.
I reckon that most of these deployments are done because the owner is a tech geek and enjoys tinkering, and not because of necessity. Which is fine as well, whatever floats your boat.
I blame the designers though. The fine grained control is completely unnecessary. If each room had only one circuit for all the lights in the room, controlled by switches at each doorway, that would also fix the problem.