The VAST majority of the federal budget goes to entitlements. Another massive chunk goes to paying interest on debt because we spent money we didn't have on entitlements. An similarly large chunk goes to defense (Which you could make an argument for, except the VAST majority of which is not actually used for defense, but intervening in far away conflicts)
So going back to all the "society" items, well, the roads, infrastructure electricity, basic services, police, clean water, airports; all the stuff you really need for a society: They're a tiny, minute sliver of the money the government takes from us on a regular basis. You could reduce taxes by 90% and still provide everything you need from a functional society without the parasitic drain on the economy.
The real parasitic drain on the economy is the large accumulations of capital that prevent the Invisible Hand from manifesting. Being alive is an inelastic good. If people have to choose between starving to death or labor for scrip to use at the company grocery, it breaks the efficiency of the market at valuing labor.
That's what those entitlements pay for.
Maybe you think that's not worthwhile, fair enough. Unfortunately for you, many of your fellow citizens and taxpayers disagree.
Like, that is an extremely strong claim and I'd appreciate if you could provide some evidence for it.
Society is a mutually beneficial arrangement. I agree that you should be able to "opt out" and live in a homestead way out in the forest, and that if you do so you should be exempt of taxes. But unless you live in a Kazynscki cabin, that view makes no sense.