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Re:Live near your friends by SoftTalker on Wednesday September 27, 2023 @09:43PM (#37684141)
Friendships are overhead. If you don't make regular effort to cultivate them, they wither and die. That takes time, and involves tradeoffs or impositions on other things you might want or need to do.

The question is whether the benefits are worth it.

Re:Live near your friends by slothtrop on Thursday September 28, 2023 @09:09AM (#37689115)
Hence why less is more. You can have strong bonds with select few friends, but this can be lonelier if social time is limited, as it can be in adulthood.