Math is in language. In a similar way that we can have fiction and non-fiction, with different uses of language, you can have 'pure' and 'applied' uses of math. Using 'real' as the goal kind of misses the point. It's not imaginative, if that's the antithesis of real in this whole conceptual discussion. But, like fiction to non-fiction, it's still a public phenomenon that "touches" the world in language as a shared, communal, element in a form of life. Math is remarkably useful as a representation of the world and for us solving problems, but you can also give directions to a location to someone with just hand signals and barking like a dog. In a way, math is not special. But, the degree of accuracy that we've developed in math, however, is what makes it remarkable.