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Re:There's no speed limit (2009) by reason on Tuesday March 27, 2012 @09:54AM (#3761474)
This is a great article. My problem is, however, that I take it to the extreme: I set unrealistic goals for myself seeing as there are about 50 different things I want to learn outside of school. I almost always never meet my goals, and I become really discouraged.

It also seems like most successful people can point to an event, person, etc, in their past that served as a great turning point in putting them on the path to success. I just can't seem to put myself in a position for that to happen.

Derek, any tips?

Re:There's no speed limit (2009) by sivers on Tuesday March 27, 2012 @09:59AM (#3761505)
First: Don't be a donkey. http://sivers.org/donkey

Also, ask yourself of those 50 different goals, which is something you HATE NOT doing? http://sivers.org/hatenot

Focus on that goal, and let go of the rest.

See my other reply here about the conditions of "flow". One is that you need to be getting immediate positive feedback on your actions. Maybe your 50 different goals aren't giving you any progress feedback, because they never get enough of your time to make progress?

Imagine kind of like some people take a 10-day meditation retreat, or a 7-day fast, maybe what you need is like a 10-day "ONLY ONE GOAL" retreat.

Pick the one thing that matters most, and only work towards that one thing. It's almost physically painful to ignore the other 49 at first, but soon the rewards from that one will be worth it. Then it feeds on itself, and perhaps could be your turning point.

Re:There's no speed limit (2009) by Aushin on Tuesday March 27, 2012 @10:13AM (#3761567)
Is it possible to be a semi-donkey? I have, if I were to try to count, 4 major 'things' going on in my life right now. One is keeping fit, one is keeping up with free online learning resources like Udacity, one is my job, and one is learning to play guitar.

Are you suggesting that if I don't drop three of those, I won't succeed in any of them? That worries me a bit, because the job part takes up LOTS and LOTS of time, far more than the other three combined.

Re:There's no speed limit (2009) by zumda on Tuesday March 27, 2012 @10:24AM (#3761635)
I think this comes down to timeboxing everything.

1. Goal: Keeping fit. Invest 30 minutes each morning to that goal, which leaves 3.

2. Goal: Your job. Again, this is timeboxed until 5 pm, so do whatever it takes. Which leaves 2.

3. Goal: Play guitar. Not it gets tricky, because you could do both. But I think, again, timebox them. Monday through Friday you concentrate on your guitar, which leaves only 1.

4. Goal: Udacity. Now that you can do on the weekend. You will probably still play some guitar (I know I do), but thats not "learning", but playing (which is also important).

I think if everything is timeboxed and planned, I at least don't have problems keeping up, because I don't feel overwhelmed.

Re:There's no speed limit (2009) by dropshopsa on Tuesday March 27, 2012 @11:38AM (#3762073)
Here is a good site for guitar try do a lesson a day.. justinguitar.com
Re:There's no speed limit (2009) by sivers on Tuesday March 27, 2012 @10:15AM (#3761579)
We all have multiple goals. (Be healthy. Be a great programmer. Be a great dad. Etc.)

You'll know if you have so many that it's holding you back, and paralyzing you.

If it's not a problem, if you're able to progress on all of them, then congrats! No need to change anything because of a silly blog post. ☺

Re:There's no speed limit (2009) by Aushin on Tuesday March 27, 2012 @10:24AM (#3761632)
Thanks for the quick response. I'm a bit more at ease now. And the post was anything but silly. It makes a really powerful point!
Re:There's no speed limit (2009) by wmat on Tuesday March 27, 2012 @03:54PM (#3763312)
That describes me perfectly. I'm paralysed, but working hard not to be.
Re:There's no speed limit (2009) by reason on Tuesday March 27, 2012 @10:01AM (#3761513)
Awesome. The One Goal Retreat sounds like a great idea. I'll give it a shot - thanks!
Re:There's no speed limit (2009) by vidar on Tuesday March 27, 2012 @09:57AM (#3761496)
Just pick one thing and finish it. This does take discipline, but it is the obvious way forward.