This is not a good topic for a message board debate.
Why would it not be a good topic? I have often pondered asking HN how to deal with it, because I have a lot of religious friends and I am scared of losing them if I bring up religion as a topic. I would be interested how other HN users deal with that issue (assuming there are others who are not religious).
Also, religion might be the greatest hack ever.
Yes, you are likely to lose friends if you insist on debating their religious beliefs as if they were favorite programming languages. You do not endear yourself to them when you refer to religion as a "hack", in either common definition of the term.
The best way not to "deal" with this problem is to avoid it. Hence: bad topic for a message board debate.
If you feel any further urge to discuss this issue with me, and aren't just trying to score message board points about religion, my contact info is in my profile and you can feel free to ping me about this. I've invited you to talk to me about religion; feel free to take me up on it. Know that your parent comment is light grey because Patrick's response was intended to communicate almost the opposite of that invitation.
Maybe that way your beliefs really do no harm, except that you are a role model for others who might take it more seriously.