I am just trying to say that we should begin our conversations giving each other the benefit of the doubt, and then build mutual understanding through compassion and empathy. That is all.

That mod is likely an ill-intentioned guy and in violation of the Discord ToS, but starting every conversation by accusing others of being ill-intentioned is how we end achieving nothing as a society.

Punishment and an escalation of intolerance are not the goal, tolerance is.