You can choose to place a high value on spending time with one's family, and that's fine, but that's very different than making the "incredibly short-sighted" economic decision to quit your job because of very temporarily high childcare costs. For many people that decision is worth it, but everyone should be aware that the economic cost of it is actually quite high - relatively few if any professional careers can be 'put on hold' for 1-2 decades and then resumed without great difficulty.