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Re:‘I just assumed it would happen’: the unspoken grief of c... by halfmatthalfcat on Tuesday September 05, 2023 @08:44AM (#37390882)
If you look at things objectively, then yes, it is the most important for the species. If you look at things relatively, then no, there's a lot of factors at play and everyone does not need to have kids (overpopulation concerns, cost of living, personal preferences, etc).

That being said, having kids brings so much perspective to a life already lived. You almost live a second (or third, forth, fifth, etc) life vicariously though them, so it's up there in "experiences to have".

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Re:‘I just assumed it would happen’: the unspoken grief of c... by hhjinks on Tuesday September 05, 2023 @09:19AM (#37391249)
Looking at things from the perspective of the species is not equivalent to looking at things objectively. Hell, there is no such thing as an objective measure of life. How can I objectively measure that a life is worth living? What if my child only lives for a few years, in agony due to getting cancer? Was such a short life worth the pain? It's impossible to say.
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Re:‘I just assumed it would happen’: the unspoken grief of c... by tr888 on Tuesday September 05, 2023 @08:57AM (#37391016)
It certainly is an experience, it's just not the only experience in life's rich tapestry!
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