Re:Ask HN: What’s Your Morning Routine?
by perryg on Tuesday September 05, 2023 @04:53AM
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You sleep in a separate home from your family? Is this common where you’re from?
Re:Ask HN: What’s Your Morning Routine?
by stevekemp on Tuesday September 05, 2023 @05:10AM
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I do.
It's common enough that it has an acronym (LAT), and name "Living apart together":
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Living_apart_together
It's not super-common, anywhere, to the best of my knowledge. But it's also more common than you'd expect.
Re:Ask HN: What’s Your Morning Routine?
by GoldenMonkey on Tuesday September 05, 2023 @01:18PM
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I enjoy LAT. Keeps the fire alive in the relationship with the LTR gf. And gives me enough space and freedom, to not feel trapped.
At 7AM I walk across the park to my wife's house, and make a second cup of coffee. Sometimes I set out a breakfast bowl for her, and sometimes she's already awake.
7:15 I wake up our child, and gentle encourage him to get out of bed. By about 7:30 he's usually awake and alive. If not I physically carry him out of bed, and place him on the sofa, before I start to encourage him to eat some breakfast.
After he's eaten breakfast, gotten dressed, and brushed his teeth I take him out the door at 7:55. I walk him him to a neighbours house, and we wait outside there for their child to come out at 8AM. At 8:00, or 8:05, the two kids walk to school, alone, and I take a tram into the city center, later switching to a metro, and start my day at the office.
Weekends are similar, except my alarm doesn't get set at all and I tend to do nothing serious until 10AM.