For many home-schoolers, parents are no longer doing the teaching

Re:For many home-schoolers, parents are no longer doing the ... by ethbr1 on Sunday August 27, 2023 @04:24PM (#37286311)

I'd want that for my kids, because I think it'd be net-best for them.

Clearly, I'm not talking about extreme abuse.

But I am talking about more discomfort than I (as the parent) would want for the child in my ideal world.

Parenting is always wanting your child to suffer as little as possible. But a little suffering is good in the long run for the child.

Thus, the fundamental tension in letting parents be the ultimate arbiters of a child's experience.

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Re:For many home-schoolers, parents are no longer doing the ... by whatshisface on Sunday August 27, 2023 @05:50PM (#37286957)

You want your children to experience more abuse than you want them to experience?

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Re:For many home-schoolers, parents are no longer doing the ... by ethbr1 on Sunday August 27, 2023 @07:09PM (#37287549)

I think you're intentionally using term the abuse, in contrast to the words I used, to be inflammatory.

But yes, I think it's healthy for my children to experience more suffering than I, ceteris paribus, would permit them to experience, if I were omnipotent.

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Re:For many home-schoolers, parents are no longer doing the ... by whatshisface on Sunday August 27, 2023 @10:31PM (#37289007)

I'm using the word abuse because I am referring to abuse as distinct from the abstract kind of suffering that's impossible to have any opinions for or against because it might include hiking long-distance. ;)

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Re:For many home-schoolers, parents are no longer doing the ... by ethbr1 on Sunday August 27, 2023 @11:08PM (#37289260)

Where does a kid walking up to your kid and saying "That shirt looks dumb on you" once a week fall?

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Re:For many home-schoolers, parents are no longer doing the ... by whatshisface on Monday August 28, 2023 @06:18PM (#37301085)

Pretty far north of some of the things that happen in the rougher of our public schools.

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