NVIDIA said as much, released a 16GB version, and lo-and-behold it's absolutely pointless, even performing worse than the 8GB at times: https://www.tomshardware.com/reviews/nvidia-geforce-rtx-4060...
Most graphics cards are still under 8GB of VRAM, and raw numbers of memory storage mean nothing for performance in isolation.
DLSS isn't "NVIDIA flavored FSR", it's a more advanced pipeline that requires significantly more architectural alignment. FSR 3 was going to be the closest thing to an equivalent and won't run everywhere FSR 2 does.
Whether or not this is just a marketing gimmick is up to you and your own conclusions on the matter, but AMD doesn't seem to have an equivalent hardware tech for this yet. It seems to be taking steps in the right direction with the WMMA instruction for accelerating matrix multiplication in a similar fashion, but performance so far head-to-head seems lacking, and I haven't seen anything definitive out of AMD suggesting this for gaming purposes.
Meanwhile AMD only supports FSR and if the game looks better with DLSS then there's nothing you can do.
AMD cards also aren't that much cheaper so it doesn't make much sense to buy worse tech that you'll be using for years every day to save a few euros.