It would be better to say that "Metalness" is a sort of "Feature Set". IMO, most programmers would tend to agree that C++ is far closer to Java than C is, yet C++ is every bit as low level as C is. Indeed, even a managed language like C# supports raw pointers and even inline assembly if one is willing to get their hands dirty.

Low and high level languages have two definitions I have seen, one is more objective, but utterly useless: only assemblies are low-level, everything else is high. The other one is more about what can be controlled in a given language’s idiomatic usage, I believe that’s what most people actually refer to intuitively - e.g. C#/Java have ways to manipulate pointers, but you would generally not say that.

In that regard, C, C++, Rust are quite close to the metal with the latter two actually being even closer as they have native control over SIMD datatypes as well, while C doesn’t have that. Note, this is only a partial ordering, as e.g. C#/Java also have control over vector instructions, yet I wouldn’t go around claiming them closer to the metal as C.

Going back to expressivity, C++ is very expressive, while C is very inexpressive, but that is a completely orthogonal axis.

I have seen so, so, so many examples of systems where latencies, including and especially tail latencies, end up mattering substantially and where java becomes a major liability.

In my experience, actually, carefully controlling things like p99 latency is actually the most important reason C++ is preferred rather than the more vaguely specified "performance".

Edit: And probably for that specific example it’d be best to go all the way to some optimized library like FAISS, so maybe C++ still wins?

FWIW I consider shared_ptr a bit of a code-smell that you don't have your ownership model well understood, there are cases to use it but 90% of the time you can eliminate it with a more explicit design(and avoid chances of leaks + penalties from atomics).

But even if you think they have some value, it isn't a flaw in a language if it's not immediately obvious how to write code in it for people that are new to it. If you're coming from Python or Java, then learn how to write C++. There are probably as many books on C++ as on any other language out there.