80% of bosses say they regret earlier return-to-office plans

Re:80% of bosses say they regret earlier return-to-office plans by wtarreau on Saturday August 12, 2023 @09:24AM (#37099920)

It's true that we can see them everywhere but you'll probably notice that you don't know what jobs such people do and that those who you know and who need to benefit from others' experience typically do not do this. I tend to think there is a class (and a large one) of people who live only for their phone and social networks just because they have no life and they're trying to get one in such superficial stuff. Or maybe they just feel that nobody looks at them because they're not redefining the world and are not interesting, and they're trying to exist through groups of other people like them. It often makes me sad to see how they can be absorbed by these non-sense activities instead of simply being proud of what they are.

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Re:80% of bosses say they regret earlier return-to-office plans by Pannoniae on Saturday August 12, 2023 @11:29AM (#37101172)

"It often makes me sad to see how they can be absorbed by these non-sense activities instead of simply being proud of what they are."

....because "being proud of what you are" doesn't work when no one cares about what you do or who you are. Then, your options are two-fold: you either become an isolated loner who doesn't care about socialising, or you participate in those superficial activities in hope of human connection.

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Re:80% of bosses say they regret earlier return-to-office plans by tekknik on Sunday August 13, 2023 @09:34AM (#37109912)

Third option, you focus on family. Not sure why this was left out.

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Re:80% of bosses say they regret earlier return-to-office plans by wtarreau on Saturday August 26, 2023 @08:30AM (#37272234)

because the phone was more important.

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Re:80% of bosses say they regret earlier return-to-office plans by zlg_codes on Sunday August 13, 2023 @03:19AM (#37107472)

What happens when we swap phone with a hobby? I can't blame someone for feeling bad about themselves after putting themself out there and being ignored or hated on. On global networks, that feeling is somewhat amplified because it starts to feel like nobody would find you interesting, out of 9 billion people.

Why should we feel interesting? Well, I personally would not want to socialize with someone who found me boring. The juice should be worth the squeeze.

I am curious about your view on pride. The idea of pride is somewhat alien to me. What is there for an average Joe to be proud of? Most of us are trapped in an oppressive economic situation and are forever distracted from any meaningful goals in our lives by responsibilities and society's selfish expectations.

The loss of third places exacerbates the problem. People don't belong in their own communities, and they feel it.

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