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Re:I feel hopeless, rejected, and a burden on society-one we... by coldtea on Sunday July 30, 2023 @03:41PM (#36935122)
It's lower even accounting for suicide already.

There are lots of other issues, like losing supporting parents and family, lack of a support network of friends, lack of job opportunities and bad work careers, issues with pursuing healthcare and maintaining health and lack of access to healthcare, and so on.

Re:I feel hopeless, rejected, and a burden on society-one we... by adroniser on Sunday July 30, 2023 @04:30PM (#36935629)
These are all systemic issues though are they not? You could make all of these same arguments about gay people back in the 80s. Yes even the healthcare one. That doesn't mean that being gay isn't a natural variation in sexual orientation just as being autistic is a natural variation in brain structure.
Re:I feel hopeless, rejected, and a burden on society-one we... by coldtea on Sunday July 30, 2023 @06:53PM (#36936851)
>These are all systemic issues though are they not?

Only in the sense that the system doesn't provide extra accomondations. Not in the sense of active purposeful systemic opression (unlike say with blacks or gays).

>That doesn't mean that being gay isn't a natural variation in sexual orientation just as being autistic is a natural variation in brain structure.

I wouldn't say it's "just as". Being gay doesn'r bring any special impairement in sensory processing, social understanding, proprioception, speech, and so on. It only affects individuals because of morality / prejudice.

Whereas being autistic, especially of high support needs, means major sensitivity issues, issues with communication, problems coping with changes to routine, sometimes even inability to speak at all, meltdowns, and other issues, which impact the person, and need to be catered and attended, and even when perfectly catered, still cause issues (a school or office can accomondate for sensory issues, but we can't remove noise and light and other sensations from the world).

Saying it's a "natural variation" begs the question.

Re:I feel hopeless, rejected, and a burden on society-one we... by AndrewKemendo on Sunday July 30, 2023 @10:01PM (#36938053)
Well said. I’d go further and say the modern world is only comfortable for a particular subset of neurodivergent people

Namely ones who are content to be sedentary and work on explicitly abstract or highly derived concepts (mathematics, accounting, computing etc).

That’s a novel context even in near history, saying nothing of how far away our nearly unchanged pre-modern biology is from being comfortable in such a context

Re:I feel hopeless, rejected, and a burden on society-one we... by coldtea on Monday July 31, 2023 @04:37AM (#36940094)
That's a good point regarding the particular subset being more expected/accepted/integrated.

If you're asd and want to work in math or programming or something similar, it's much smoother sailing than in you want to work in many other professions that aren't abstract/sedentary. Much worse if you'd like to work in a highly social profession like advertising or journalism (or even academia in today's climate where it's mostly about how good you're at self-promotion and networking).

Re:I feel hopeless, rejected, and a burden on society-one we... by adroniser on Monday July 31, 2023 @04:24AM (#36940018)
I think you're probably right and I've misread your intention (autism lol). I agree with you that yes being autistic is a disability in the modern world due to a lack of accommodations.

My perception of the word neurodivergent is that firstly the vast majority of people who use the word use it with an often first-hand awareness of the disabling aspects of conditions like adhd or autism, but with a view towards self acceptance. The people using the word are often painfully aware of the downsides of their disability, but equally can see the upshots.

If we were in a world populated by 99% autistic people, neurotypical people would be called overly emotional, lower cognitive function, inability to think abstractly, inability to focus for long periods of time.

The point is you can acknowledge the need for accommodations while simultaneously acknowledging that it's not so much something inherently "wrong" with you, rather something wrong with you existing in a neurotypical world.

Re:I feel hopeless, rejected, and a burden on society-one we... by coldtea on Monday July 31, 2023 @04:40AM (#36940105)
Yeah, understanding the disabling aspects shouldn't prevent self-acceptance. Even more so, shouldn't prevent social acceptance. Yet, physical disabilities get much more respect and acceptance.
Re:I feel hopeless, rejected, and a burden on society-one we... by JohnBooty on Monday July 31, 2023 @01:09AM (#36939018)

    These are all systemic issues though 
    are they not? You could make all of 
    these same arguments about gay people 
    back in the 80s.
I don't think so. Some but not all.

There's nothing inherent about being gay that prevents healthy mutual interpersonal relationships.

Many people on the autism spectrum have wonderful and fulfilling interpersonal relationships (I suspect I am one of these, in fact) but autism can negatively affect many of the building blocks (empathy, etc) of interpersonal relationships.