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Re:Play Deprivation Is a Major Cause of the Teen Mental Heal... by ryandrake on Friday July 28, 2023 @05:19PM (#36913486)
> I find most people don't say anything so it's on me to let my kids know the effects they're behavior is having.

People are terrified of saying anything because of the likely reaction of the kids' parents. The "it takes a village" mindset is gone. If someone's kid runs into you and you so much as say "excuse me" to them, you risk the parents getting in your face, holding up their cellphone camera, yelling "You don't talk to my kids. Go mind your damn business, Karen!" Not worth it--so bad behavior in public goes uncorrected.

Even when kids aren't involved, people's reaction more and more to public criticism/correction is to get belligerent and tell you to mind your business.

Re:Play Deprivation Is a Major Cause of the Teen Mental Heal... by dghlsakjg on Friday July 28, 2023 @05:55PM (#36913887)
Truly.

I was at a park concert once, the kind where everyone is sitting, and there was a large family in front of me. One of the kids (around 12 I would guess, old enough in any case) kept standing up, roaming around, and generally blocking the view of the people behind him, even though he wasn't watching the show (he was literally munching on snacks and facing back in the crowd). I wouldn't have cared if he was excited, dancing, enjoying the show, but that was just not the case.

I asked him if he could sit down so I could see. His dad immediately got in my face and demanded that I apologize to his son. He didn't leave until the police got involved.

Re:Play Deprivation Is a Major Cause of the Teen Mental Heal... by nly on Friday July 28, 2023 @07:53PM (#36915008)
Awful parents breed awful kids.
Re:Play Deprivation Is a Major Cause of the Teen Mental Heal... by watwut on Saturday July 29, 2023 @02:46AM (#36917584)
Genuinely, I am not terrified. I just do not care all that much about other people's kids. In interactions I had or seen with parents or kids, literally never did any parent yelled at me or anyone else for saying "excuse me" or "that is mine".

But fundamentally, keeping control Iverson a kid is on parent and I don't think about bumping kids enough to form a sentence. I just expect parents to tell them cause it is their job and in this story, the parent in fact intervened.