Re:Never waste your midlife crisis
by hackly on Tuesday July 18, 2023 @01:41AM
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Yes, but just as they’d prefer playing video games over reading books. Might have been absent from their life at times, but I’m sure they’ll appreciate the properties and stocks I’ll leave behind for them.
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What makes you so sure? Did you discuss this with your kids, if they’re old enough, or with your friends’ older kids?
As someone with a friend who grew up under a dad like you… no they won’t. They’ll talk a whole lot of shit to someone like me about what an emotionally unavailable parent you were. Sure, they’ll acknowledge the privileged circumstances they grew up in and be grateful that they at least have that going for them, but not a single shred of that gratitude will extend to you or the decisions you made.
Then again, everyone’s different, and maybe your kids will react differently. Just don’t be surprised if you get a shitty relationship with your kids later on.
Re:Never waste your midlife crisis
by mattgreenrocks on Tuesday July 18, 2023 @07:50AM
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This is a bit of a meme recently: “I am not a workaholic, I’m creating generational wealth!”
I can’t say for sure from here, but beware of this idea floating around in the zeitgeist.
Re:Never waste your midlife crisis
by throw9away6 on Tuesday July 18, 2023 @12:30PM
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And your kid will blow that generational wealth because that’s life and wealth rarely lasts more than 3 generations