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Re:I Am Leaving by elektrontamer on Wednesday July 12, 2023 @08:24AM (#36693520)
That second step is the hardest part. How on earth do you make new close friends, I try to be the first to reach out but people seem too guarded or busy the only way they'll meet is if the gathering is large enough but the problem with that is those are very hard to organize since everyone has their own schedule.
Re:I Am Leaving by Pannoniae on Wednesday July 12, 2023 @09:04AM (#36693946)
I think the answer to that.... is that you can't, unless by accident :( All of my close-ish friends I met randomly and we just clicked.

But like, the world is going in a direction sadly where meaningful human friendships are disappearing, being replaced with endless acquittances who do not care about you, and you do not care about them either. Which I find really sad.

Most of organising problems are btw due to the lack of effort, not a true lack of time. "I am busy" is usually just a convenient excuse to why you don't want to do something together, not that you don't actually have time. (You do have time binging netflix, do ya?)

Re:I Am Leaving by elektrontamer on Wednesday July 12, 2023 @09:15AM (#36694070)
I guess I should be out more so I can have those "accidents" with like-minded people. Ironic how we're more connected than ever yet so distant to each other. You'd think it would make things a lot easier but it's like it's done the opposite.
Re:I Am Leaving by Pannoniae on Wednesday July 12, 2023 @09:30AM (#36694239)
I have personally found that "being out more" doesn't help with it at all. The accidents happen in unexpected places and times. Going "out" mostly gets you the "usual" activities - where you are almost guaranteed to not find anything like that.

Yeah, the internet has been a blessing in the past in terms of socialisation, but nowadays, it has made it even worse than before. IRL activities are dying because everyone is on social media - but not spending any time with each other, just scrolling alone. I find it very sad.

With that being said, if you want to chat, I'd be happy to :)

Re:I Am Leaving by elektrontamer on Wednesday July 12, 2023 @09:59AM (#36694635)
I'd love to chat how do we exchange contact here?
Re:I Am Leaving by Pannoniae on Wednesday July 12, 2023 @10:01AM (#36694669)
Reply to this message with a messaging platform of your choice. Or click on the link in my profile, that also works.