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Re:Andreas Kling – Failure is also a habit by withinboredom on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:35AM (#36630746)
My life philosophy boils down to: you can do whatever you want as long as you're willing to pay the price and deal with the consequences.
Re:Andreas Kling – Failure is also a habit by ozim on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:57AM (#36631014)
So you have perfect knowledge of consequences for everything you do in your life?

50 years ago general public was not aware that smoking is that bad as we know today.

For a lot of things we don’t know the real consequences or full price.

Re:Andreas Kling – Failure is also a habit by withinboredom on Friday July 07, 2023 @05:49PM (#36638758)
Obviously, you cannot be omniscient. The idea is that you have to accept that you made the best decision with the information you had at the time. If that information changes, make new decisions.
Re:Andreas Kling – Failure is also a habit by ozim on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:34PM (#36640077)
I am non smoker, never started.

My parents were smokers - can I blame them for their smoking habit that had negative effect on me, on their health?

Well not really because they never had a bad intent.

When they got smoking induced health issues were they able to make a new decision? - Not, it was too late.

Re:Andreas Kling – Failure is also a habit by withinboredom on Saturday July 08, 2023 @03:11AM (#36642101)
Well, this is why "it boils down to" this. You can't control what other people do; you may have influence, sometimes, but never control. You can't blame people for what they do, if you live with the assumption that 'most' people are making the 'best' decisions with the information they have available at the time of making it; where 'best' means something that could be an entire book.

Every decision boils down to one of four types of decisions (philosophy 101):

1. inconsequential and routine (what color shirt to wear)

2. inconsequential and once-in-a-lifetime (what color shirt to wear _today_)

3. consequential and routine (which route to take to work)

4. consequential and once-in-a-lifetime (who to marry)

The thing is, 1 & 2 can be and usually are consequential; it's just that you lack the ability to detect the consequences. Usually. I met my wife, on the beach, with some friends. The decision that led there, I thought, was inconsequential at the time.

But yes, your information will always be imperfect. I have scars all over my body from doing things that should have been fine. I've nearly died and somehow escaped (or been rescued from) the situation too many times to count. You have to live with consequences and not all consequences are knowable in advance; and for that matter, not all consequences are bad.

Re:Andreas Kling – Failure is also a habit by twodave on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:01AM (#36631071)
That’s an okay attitude from an interpersonal standpoint, but horrible advice from a mental health perspective.
Re:Andreas Kling – Failure is also a habit by withinboredom on Friday July 07, 2023 @05:54PM (#36638796)
Genuinely asking, how so? I've had my bouts of depression and burn-out in my life, but even then, I just assumed it was an unforeseen consequence of some action(s) and got treatment.

This is also the boiled down version though, so I'm kinda curious what you see in it and how it could influence the bigger picture.