> If you go back far enough, just about everyone's a descendant of someone who's been wronged by a government, and just about everyone's [3] a descendant of someone who has blood on their hands as a participant in those wrongs.

This is the fallacy of gray.

https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/dLJv2CoRCgeC2mPgj/the-fallac...

“Knowing only gray, you conclude that all grays are the same shade. You mock the simplicity of the two-color view, yet you replace it with a one-color view . . .”