> When I say masculinity, or masculine values, what do you think of? When you think of someone who values their masculinity, who do you perceive? Now do the same for femininity. Which model is healthier?

I really struggle to understand this question. Between masculinity and femininity is there one that is supposed to be obviously healthier?

If we go by what the marketing is pushing it's a toxic tarpit on both sides (see The Rules vs The Game).