You just described a bunch of traits of a narcissist and assigned them to masculinity. But I’m reality plenty of women display the same traits.

> refusing to admit you’re wrong > escalating situations > being overly boastful

The reason why people, mostly men, don’t like that term is because it gets thrown around for pretty much anything at this point to mostly put men down. Spreading your legs and holding the door open for someone is considered toxic masculinity.