> When I say "progressive", I mean someone who believes history marches forward to a destination.
Doesn't check out.
https://www.britannica.com/topic/progressivism
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Progressivism_in_the_United_St...
Maybe you're confusing it with philosophical historical progress, then comparing that somehow with your own stated social conservativism.
https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/progress/
All I'm trying to say is that you have a very special definition of progressive and you're going to talk past everyone if you're only equipped with that.
The "progressive" label stems from the vision that they have foreknown vision of what the world should look like and they want to transform the world to look like that.
This type of progressive isn't held back from apparent failures. The response to a failure by a progressive, is "It failed because you weren't doing it right" (that wasn't real communism) or "It failed because you weren't doing enough of it" (you only spent 2% of revenue on DEI training, we need to commit more to the goal of equity, an administered council dedicated to force equal outcomes).