Safety in this case is not provided by physical distance between homes but by curation of software done by nonprofit groups and selection of nearly only open source software with easy building of packages and tracking of changes in the source.
> Did you compile them yourselves? Did you compile the compiler?
There's no such thing as perfect security, and I think you know that. If you think your compiler may be compromised, there's stuff you could do, you just have to evaluate where the paranoia starts and stop before then.
Let's not pretend that just because there's a sandbox at a higher level of the stack and some kind of user ability to accept/deny operations that things are secure.
Do you trust trust? (And no differential compilation isn't an actual solution.)
Let's just accept the fact that Linux comes from a place of "if you run a program you are responsible for what it does". This is contrary to modern users expectations of "just because I run a program it shouldnt be able to siphon all my data", largely driven by mobile apps and their ecosystem.
If I autocomplete an ls command on my Mac's terminal it will warn me that iTerm is trying to access the specified folder. There is nothing like that on popular distros. The whole security landscape needs to be re-thought.
Maybe someone who knows more than me can talk about bring features from more restricted Linux variants to a more broad audience.