It is more along the lines of: we are not all the same. We are all wired in different ways. Different things make us tick. I don't particularly enjoy social interactions. Frankly, I am drained by them, but to others those same draining experiences are a source of energy. I assume there is some sort of solution, but right now it remains a tug of war mixed in with a weird game of chicken.

In other words, there should be a way to accommodate everyone. In fact, there is one. We just seem to want to do it.