Every week 2 hours at a local organization. There are other ways in which i give back to my family and my community, which i don't intend to discuss here. Further, on this point, i do not need to justify these to you or any internet stranger. Who are you to police others and their morality?

I never said what gender i was or what gender i was interested in. I do know that i would probably earn a higher salary than my partner, which would disfavor me in a divorce. Perhaps it is you with the prejudice, assuming that women would earn less?

Finally, people in general are capricious. People change all the time. It seems like a large gamble to make on another person, based essentially how they feel.

Either way, maybe you should examine your own self before judging others. Humility has intrinsic value in and of itself and can be found in many places.