First, a dedicated GrapheneOS user here. Kudos and mad props to all who create(d) and maintain(ed) it.

Second, I look in the mirror and see a grey beard. I've seen a lot of interpersonal strife in the High Tech world over the decades. I got stung a few times myself, directly and indirectly. I can relate to what I've read of this situation in the other HN thread, which leads me to...

Third, I hope that the personal cost of such a taxing series of events will lead those people affected towards books like this:

https://drgabormate.com/book/when-the-body-says-no/

https://wisdomexperience.org/product/how-be-sick-second-edit...

Life is too short.