Both are cops. But they are entirely different people.
Reaching for anything when pulled over is the absolute worst thing you can do to an officer no matter how innocuous you may think you seem.
Please, just keep your hands on the wheel until they're at the window.
That's because, in those countries, it NEVER happens (i.e for someone pulled over to shoot the cop). So you can go get your ID or whatever, and then you have a chat, and they maybe give you a fine for speeding or whatever.
Wow you must be really good at that. In all my life I never managed to talk myself out of a ticket once I was stopped by the police.
This is not your best strategy if:
(a) You are driving on a suspended license
(b) You or anyone in your car have anything in the car to hide
(c) You have a radar detector (just give up)
I bring this up because, for me at least, there's no skill involved in "talking my way out of a ticket". There's no magic words, and it doesn't involve charm, just a little mindfulness.
The 65 in a 55 I pulled over as soon as I saw him slow down to turn around, the rest of the time I just admitted I was probably going too fast. Again, nothing special just mindfulness.
The important thing to keep in mind of course is that with a speeding ticket, at worse you'll have to pay a few bucks for something you maybe even didn't do. This is as opposed to spending a few years in jail for a crime you did not commit...
If you're caught speeding, suck it up and take the ticket.
Cops are people too and when they walk up to your window after pulling you over, they may actually be scared. And you know fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to your suffering in traffic court.
So the next cop who pulls you over, wind down your window before he gets there, get your drivers license out so you don't have to fish your pockets, put your hands on the wheel so he can see you're not going to blow his brains out and if it's not more than 20 miles over the limit, try admitting guilt and being nice. You might be surprised.