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Re:Dogs Can Have Human-Like Anxiety. They Need Human-Like Tr... by thanatropism on Monday May 15, 2023 @10:55AM (#35949197)
> I found raising your voice in many cases just means you don't trust yourself and you don't trust that your kids respect you.

My current working theory is that toddler temper tantrums are this. I mean from the opposite direction; the kid is not on solid footing yet and doesn't think the grownups take them seriously enough.

For the longest while we were making the utmost effort to do the respectful parenting thing, but as he's growing to have very strong opinions that are not always reasonable, this is... harder.

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Re:Dogs Can Have Human-Like Anxiety. They Need Human-Like Tr... by FrankyHollywood on Monday May 15, 2023 @11:47AM (#35950162)
Oh yes this is hard... When the kid has a strong opinion, raises voice or just tries to lure you into a discussion or fight. That's the moment where the parent is easily tricked.

Staying calm in such a moment can do wonders and de-escalate, but it's hard, especially when I'm tired and need a moment of quiet :)

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