It's not a jab. I am directly alluding to the fact that you are clueless about the actual dangers being discussed here, because you are so insulated and removed from them that they seem like vague abstractions.

Trans person: "These people are passing laws to strip me of human rights. Some call for my death, while others actively try to kill me and others like me."

You: "Have you tried harder at being friends with them? Sounds like you just have a bad attitude."