I find the premise of this argument to be quite odd. I live in an area with a lot of Hispanic immigrants. You see all these men who are average looking, don’t have time to hit the gym (statistically more likely to be overweight than white Americans), short as far as Americans go, and doing low status jobs, and they all have wives or girlfriends. Perhaps it’s the particular social dynamics in that community. But I suspect there’s a big component that’s things that are entirely under men’s control—working, dating to marry, etc. I mean, the fact that you frame this as a choice between porn and having a relationship with a woman kinda proves that point.

I’d go a step further and suggest that porn is a cause of these men’s problems. The availability of porn eliminates their incentive to go out and do things to become a desirable mate.