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Re:How to spend money on your friends without it looking lik... by gtirloni on Friday April 28, 2023 @09:23AM (#35741001)
In some cultures, it could create a situation where you are showing you're better than me and the person would feel humiliated. It's about the socioeconomic status[0] and how each person values that. In some countries that's valued more than other things like, say, being a kind person.

The author of this article seems to have lived in US/Canada which are very capitalist societies where people are expected to work hard and gather a lot of monetary resources. In these societies, showing you're better off than your friend might be considered a bad thing. People often hide things they bought or don't talk about that new house because it would create an awkward situation where people are comparing their socioeconomic status to others.

Is it stupid? Yes, but that's life.

0 - https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-psychology-of...

Re:How to spend money on your friends without it looking lik... by antisthenes on Friday April 28, 2023 @10:14AM (#35741504)
I can't even imagine what the relationship needs to be like where bringing some takeout and a 6-pack of beer would be considered as 1 person showing themselves to be better than another.

But it certainly wouldn't be called friendship.

Re:How to spend money on your friends without it looking lik... by gtirloni on Friday April 28, 2023 @11:44AM (#35742722)
The article mentions inviting 12 people to a GreenOlive restaurant and paying all expenses, not a 6-pack of beer.

Either way, you can interpret it as you wish.