You might be confused because a typical battery in an EV is around 20+kWh, which is why it takes a few hours for the wall charger to charge it!
For comparison, a 20kW load would draw 83A at 240V. A smallish pole mounted utility transformer may supply 20kW.
Of course, none of it detracts from your point that petroleum is very energy dense :)
So a 7.2kW charger is about 2500 times slower than a fast gas pump.
Even slow gas pump (say 10MW), used with a conventional engine (say 20% efficient), compared with a state-of-the-art fast charger (say 200kW) would still be ten times as fast in a miles-per-hour contest.
EVs make up for this somewhat by being able to charge anywhere that has a decent supply of electricity for hours at a time, but it still shows you what they're up against.
A mid-range home EV charger peaks out at about 20kW.
By contrast, the energy flux of a gas pump is around 20MW.